浪跡天涯花一朵

To talk about love, there are 3 stories to be shared.

1st.

just read something from my friend's blog. 1 of his friend commited suicide. That's a girl.
a girl from common family.

according to her blog, it tells how sad she was. BUT no one could help her when she really was in need. 天地化為零.  I understand how she felt but can't forgive her behavior.The boy's family wants him ,a doctor, to marry a girl who's more wealth with better background. So what ? They aren't rich with background either. What they stand is only their son is a DOCTOR.

2nd.

She told him to sperate with each other for a while. ( usually that means she wants to break up.)  He bought an apartment to marry her 2 years ago. in 2008, the aparement is gonna be ready.  Just the eve he had to go to the bank to request a loan, she said " let's seperate ".He was so down. He tried to make himself as drunk as possible. He couldn't help complaining about her. so childish, so selfish, even so...unreasonable. The girl's horoscope is based on Aquarius. and she's from a rich family,also. 10 days went by, when he succeeded in making loan from the bank.

He called her to get some more paper work about his apartment, she tried to change the goal from the ppwk to other stuff. Finally, she said,"I'm gonna resign in Aug in 2008 once I got married."  He asked,"May I know who you are gonna marry to?"
She,"It's you."
He,"WTF are you talking about? Are you kidding?"
She said,"It's because I just can't find anyone better than you."

guess what his decision is? Yeah, he decided to be back for good.  He said, " This is my business, I deserve it. No matter how bad she is. This is my choice. YOU only have to listen to me while I am hurt again."

He had the right to say NO but.............

3rd.

She interrupted him and her long long ago. She was so-called the 3rd person. Her friends had to choose who to be with 'cause the two girls were classmates in high school. and they were very close.

She decied to stay away from him 'cause she told us he's a bad man. Time goes by,she changed her cell phone number several times. BUT it's funny that he always has her latest contact information.

Recently, I heard of that he had broken up with the girl. (They are thought to marry soon.) It seems she has another chance. Too much detail none of our business, but I asked her to think it again. To keep the right to say NO. I was thought the one who rejects them the most. But I told her," Actually I reject you but I have to support you emotionally. This is your choice. I'll be there while you need me."

I don't know the result and the process. I don't know if that's really so-called true love.But I thnk true love sometimes must be sacrification. Not only boys and girls, family and friends are as well.